How to Properly Finish Your Man When Giving Him Oral Sex

Firstly, What To Do If He Has Trouble Finishing
It’s completely normal that some guys don’t orgasm easily during oral sex. It doesn’t mean that you don’t give good head. It’s also very similar to how some women have trouble reaching orgasm when their man is eating their pussy, during regular sex, or even when masturbating alone.

If your man has trouble finishing when you give him head, there are two main things that you can do to ensure he has an easier time finishing in the future.

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1. Steady, Strong & Consistent

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If he can’t orgasm easily during your blow job, then make sure to provide maximum stimulation to his penis while keeping your “stroke” as steady and consistent as possible. Consistency is key here. Otherwise, he will lose his concentration and find it harder to cum.

2. Get Him To Stop Masturbating

Some men use a strong, vice-like grip when masturbating that doesn’t accurately mimic your mouth or vagina. This is sometimes known as “Death Grip.” They always masturbate using this super-tight grip, and eventually, their penis adapts, requiring huge amounts of pressure and stimulation in order to climax. Then when you give him head, your mouth can only provide a fraction of the pressure that he uses when he masturbates. His penis will barely feel it, and he won’t get anywhere close to cumming.

It’s frustrating, but there is a solution…

If you want his penis to return to normal and for him to climax from less pressure, then get him to stop masturbating for a few months while you still have sex and oral sex together (even if he can’t cum from it).

Over time, his penis will adjust and become more sensitive when you give him head, allowing him to more easily cum and appreciate that you give the best head.

Some guys have trouble coming from partnered sex because they become conditioned to a certain stimulation style (even if this isn’t due to a death grip issue). So having him pause masturbating can help with that, too.

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How To Tell When He Is Close To Orgasm?

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One of the things many people ask even if they know how to give good head is, “How the heck am I supposed to know when my man is going to cum?”

It’s surprisingly straightforward!

If you are giving your man a BJ, but you don’t want him to finish in your mouth, or you want to time it perfectly so that you can give him a facial or have him cum elsewhere on your body, then knowing when he is close to orgasm is vital.

Here’s how to tell he is about to climax:

Start by listening to his breathing. You’ll notice that as he gets closer and closer to cumming, he’ll start breathing faster and taking shorter breaths.
Additionally, his body will begin to tense up. So if you have a hand on either his stomach or thigh or even in his hand, you’ll feel it starting to tense up.
Some guys start to get more vocal as they reach orgasm, but others remain quiet. It depends on your man.
You can probably notice that all these signs from his body are very similar to what your body does as it reaches orgasm.

Then once he begins to orgasm, his cock will start twitching or throbbing as he ejaculates.

Of course, some guys may announce it, which makes it easy for you to tell when he’s about to orgasm.

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Incredibly Intimate Finish

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Some believe that oral sex is a hot, but not a particularly intimate act.

They’re wrong.

The truth is that giving your man head can be insanely intimate if you make it intimate, and for some couples, this might be key to giving good head.

Here’s how…

Hold his hands – Holding your man’s hands as you give him head feels somewhat intimate until he is about to cum. Then it feels incredibly close & intimate as he cums. His hands will squeeze yours as you make him blow his load.

Tell him how you feel – When your man is about to cum, take him out of your mouth and finish him off with your hands while telling him how much you love him and how much you enjoy making him cum.

Make eye contact – More on that below…

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Look Into My Eyes

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Making eye contact with him as he reaches orgasm can be an intensely intimate experience, especially when you consider the fact that men find oral sex more intimate than women do.

There is just something incredibly sensual, connecting, and intense about staring deep into his eyes as he climaxes and starts cumming. You may find it to be slightly submissive being on your knees, looking up at your man while you give him head. Or you may just enjoy the feeling of sexual power as you see him writhe in pleasure while you control him completely using only your mouth.

I promise you, ANY man you give oral sex to will respond to one of these points. If you want extra credit — if you want to become the best lover he’s ever had and ensure he’s never bored during sex again — you should check out this guide below. This is the male pleasure blueprint that will teach you the exact skills to pleasure him, master foreplay, give him explosive orgasms, and be unforgettable in bed.



Finally here are the simplified steps to enchant and surprise your man in bed, completely driving him wild. I am going to teach you exactly how to talk dirty to your man so that you can build sexual tension, keep him deeply attracted to you and most importantly so that you have incredible sex. Learn new foreplay moves to make your man obsessed.
With the hand job techniques in here that will bring your man back-arching ecstasy and having him begging you for more. I’m also going to reveal the exact techniques, attitudes, and tips that these “blow job queens” use to give their men the best oral sex of their lives.
Remember dependence on male thrusting alone to reach the heights of erotic glory is like trying to win a foot race on one leg. In you will realize that the penis can be fondled, caressed, griped, massaged, milked, licked, inundated and rippled as a whole or in sections using only the vagina.

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  1. Man if there’s ever any openings for just anybody that gives great head I’m the deal I love sucking on that dick and I’ll be there showing people what you guys can teach me I would love to be able to do that for fun jobPlease let me know if there’s anything I can do that involves cock I want to read up on this one but what I like to do i like to take my time when he’s getting really close and just kiss that penis and suck it aggressively and then go slow while returning back to the cock delicately and wet & mi slippery you can really suck on it like a lollipop at this point Consistently up and down Slow long strokes pump the base of the body and the cock Cuping his balls holding that cock with two hands stroke and suck up and down up and down the full length on the backside and top side together like pushing your fingertips together and stroke and suck and man if he can hold it back just a second he can squirt down your throat That’s the fun part of sucking dick finding your way making it rockhard so you can moan and then while you moan If you have a vibrator but plug or replica cock in your ass He can really pound it and suck it swallow every drop in that cum and then suck all the cum off of his body and cockAnd tell him one more time I love your cock so muchPlease fuck me again I love the idea of sitting on a real dick exspecially if it’s Rockhard and deep There’s nothing like the first moment of sliding in just think you can give him your wonderful gorgeous ass if he’ll trade you for his wonderful gorgeous cock fuck yeah

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