For anyone who’s interested in more oh-so-needed quality time with their partner but looking for a way to shake things up, we have two words for you: Sideways. Oral. Curious? Here’s how the oral position otherwise known as the Kivin method works.
There are tons of ways to engage sexually with your partner, including within oral sex. If everyone involved is interested in trying something a little different, the Kivin Method is a great place to start. Be patient with each other and be willing to try a couple of positions until you find what’s comfy for you both.
What is the Kivin method?
The Kivin method is a style of cunnilingus in which a person with a vagina receives oral from the side, allowing for a different type of clitoral stimulation that can feel more intense for some people. The giver’s body is perpendicular to the receiver’s body (so their bodies form a T shape), as opposed to parallel (where their bodies are aligned in one straight line)
What makes it different?
Instead of the giver going between the receiver’s legs, the giver approaches the vulva from either side. Usually the receiver has one or both legs raised to allow the giver access: One of the receiving partner’s legs, for example, might be draped over the giver’s neck or back. Or the receiver might have their legs up, with their knees against their chest.
Side-to-side clitoral stimulation.
The clitoris gets stimulated in a direction that’s a little different from usual oral. Because of the positioning, you are automatically giving the clitoris attention in a side-to-side motion, instead of up and down. Depending on the receiver’s anatomy, the whole clitoral hood and shaft can also get stimulation at once from the full width of the tongue.
More of the vulva gets stimulation.
Giving oral at an angle allows for more of the vulva to be stimulated with each swipe of the tongue. In traditional oral, givers tend to focus on the clitoris only. With the Kivin method, it can be easier to give the labia some well-deserved attention as well.
Access to other sensitive parts.
The Kivin method also allows easier access to other sensitive parts of the body, such as the anus, the vaginal opening, and the perineum (that soft spot between the vaginal opening and the anus). All of these areas can feel good when orally stimulated.
The Kivin method can make her reach orgasm faster than traditional oral because of all the additional stimulation to more of the clitoris and vulva. Some women are even able to reach orgasm in just three to five minutes when you use this method.
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How to try the Kivin method:
1. Get in position.
Once both parties have consented to try something new, the receiver can lie back on the bed and raise one or both legs. The giver can then get into position by bringing their face to the receiver’s vulva underneath the raised leg, with the giver usually lying with their stomach against the bed. The giver can also be propped up on their knees if that’s more comfortable.
2. Slowly start using the tongue to stimulate the vulva.
For those that are giving, use your tongue to stimulate all parts of the vulva, especially the hood. This motion is pleasurable for many people because it can stimulate the entire width of the clitoris and potentially parts of the internal clitoris that extend outward from the shaft, especially if you’re focusing on the bottom, where the labia meet the clitoris.
3. Experiment with different tongue motions.
Experiment with different mouth and tongue motions (up and down, circular motions, etc.) and different placements of the tongue (some like to be licked over the clitoral hood, while others like stimulation directly on the clitoris. Stay consistent once you find a technique the receiver likes.
4. Use your hands!
Communicate with your partner about if they’d like other areas stimulated. If your partner is into it, you can slide a finger into either the vaginal opening or the anus while using your tongue.
Using one of your free hands, you can also gently stimulate the perineum. For many, this is one of the best parts of the Kivin Method, and you may be able to feel this area pulsating when the receiver is close to climax. This isn’t proved to be definite, but it’s worth a try!
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