Lesbian First Time Sex Relevant List

Body Parts that could be erogenous OR no-fly zones:

+ ears
+ neck
+ nipples
+ inner thighs
+ feet
+ hands
+ ass
+ small of the back

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Some Women Do and Some Women Don’t:

+ want to be penetrated
+ orgasm from penetration
+ ejaculate
+ incorporate sex toys into sex
+ enjoy g-spot stimulation
+ require manual clitorial stimulation to orgasm
+ prefer clitorial stimulation AND vaginal penetration to orgasm
+ enjoy anal penetration or butt plugs or eating ass
+ use strap-ons
+ orgasm at all
+ identify as “stone”
+ fantasize during sex
+ identify as either a “bottom” or a “top”
+ identify as either “butch” or “femme”
+ want to be naked during sex
+ want the lights on during sex
+ like it rough
+ have an STI
+ wanna scissor

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+ Ejaculating and literally soaking your entire bed (it’s not urine, we promise) (also, it’s awesome)
+ Farting or queefing
+ Accidentally cutting/lacerating the vagina (this happens to old pros, too) (ahem)
+ Not orgasming
+ Not being wet
+ Getting injured
+ Tensing up while pentrated
+ Bleeding
+ Bleeding from hymen-breakage
+ Post-sex UTIs or yeast infections
+ Taking 30+ minutes to orgasm
+ Your arm getting tired
+ Crying
+ Laughing
+ Feelings
+ No feelings
+ Not feeling like the whole world changed
+ Feeling like the whole world changed
+ Feeling like you’re on a whole new level of intimacy with your partner
+ Not enjoying it

Try not to be too goal-oriented. Lots of people don’t come the first time. If neither of you does, there’s gonna be a moment when you feel like you’re done anyhow, like the encounter is over, and that might feel weird, but it’s not weird, it happens. Stop when you’d stop any physically tiring activity — when you don’t feel like it anymore. Just laugh and maybe stay naked and kiss and talk. Cuddle! Lesbians love to cuddle. Or ask her to show you how she gets herself off and vice versa — mutual masturbation is a good backup plan for when you both want to come but can’t seem to get it this time. Plus it’s hot to watch and see what she does to herself!


This book is intended to inspire and entice lovers to broaden their sexual repertoire. Our bodies have the potential to feel an array of sensations. When we more fervently explore our sexuality we uncover hidden, uncultivated desires and discover newfound pleasure possibilities. Indulging in novel, sensual activities as well as revisiting the tried and true vanilla types of sex positions will also sharpen lovemaking skills and increase intimacy between lovers, one delicious experience at a time.
Experiment with different positions to suit your mood and facilitate the type of connection you’re into pursuing. As you strive to become a self-assured lover and to experience more pleasurable and satisfying sex, do what makes you and your lover or lovers comfortable and happy. Play within your abilities and never force yourself into demanding postures. When you choose and act out a position, the only expectation going into it should be to have fun and enjoy one another as you share in some fresh loving.
Many positions involve friction, others rely on a clitoral focus or demand going deep inside, and special attention to a particular erogenous zone. Use this handy list as a visual reference when choosing a new position to verify those you’ve mastered, perhaps even jotting the date and location of the sexcapade in the margin. You can also denote favorites and indicate those you aspire to experience.

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